If you have a resentment you want to be free of, if you will pray. Just typed this up for a friend, and since i had it transcribed, thought i would share it here as well. Democratic underground page 552 in the aa big book. Acceptance page 417 alcoholics anonymous acceptance is the answer to all of my problems today. If you have resentment you want to be free of, if you will pray for the person or thing that you resent, you will. When i am disturbed, it is because i find some person, place, thing, or situationsome fact of my life unacceptable to me, and i can find no serenity until i accept that person, place, thing, or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment.
Taken from alcoholics anonymous big book pages 6063. Page 67 of the book, alcoholics anonymous, states that fear was an evil and corroding thread. My resentments my character defects resentment prayer on page. How it works from pages 5860 of the big book of alcoholics anonymous rarely have we seen a person fail who has thoroughly followed our path. So i figured i would post it here so i have it handy. Videos or graphic images may not be downloaded, copied or duplicated without the express written permission of alcoholics anonymous world services, inc. Nicknamed the big book by the early aa members for its thick paper and wide margins, the books history began in 1934 when bill wilson, an alcoholic stockbroker who had. When a person offended we said to ourselves, this is a sick man. You can search the alcoholics anonymous big book for phrases, key words, etc. On page 552 of the big book of alcoholics anonymous their basic text, there is a very helpful suggestion on how to rid yourself of. Aa big book appendix v edward dowling episcopal magazine the living church john d.
Oct 09, 2012 i mentioned on my recent radio show the healing power of prayer that i would post the big books resentment prayer. Core character defects 4 study from the bottom of page 63 to the end of page 65 and then follow its instructions. God will constantly disclose more to you and to us. The page 552 prayer to end resentments sober catholic. This created a thirst for an even greater knowledge of the vital information contained in the big book.
Ask him in your morning meditation what you can do each day for the man who is still sick. These instructions are for the above prayer big book, freedom from bondage, p. Resentment in big book alcoholics anonymous, 12 steps and 12. Show him that as alcoholics, the writers of the book understand.
The step 4 prayer from how it works page 66 of the big book. These instructions are for the below prayer big book, freedom from bondage, p. My sponsor suggested i type it up and put it somewhere in the house where i see it all the time. Yet we had been seeing another kind of flight, a spiritual liberation from this world, people who rose above their problems. I have provided a link in a couple of places on this page for your convenience, so you can get to the search page. Show him your copy of this book and tell him what you have found out about alcoholism. Whether youre new to aa, or youre a seasoned veteran, this is the easiest and most useful app to aid in your recovery. Big book acceptance is the answer to all of my problems today. Since the first edition appeared, in 1939, it has helped millions of men and women recover from alcoholism. Alcoholics anonymous, 4th edition should be in italics hope this helps. Its unfortunate for those who have taken half measures, but i would be willing to put my hand out to them when they return.
T he alcoholics anonymous big book is not just the most influential self help book ever published. The 164 and more book, ebook, and web site are all concordances which display passages from the big book alcoholics anonymous, the twelve steps and twelve traditions, and the a. Though we did not like their symptoms and the way these disturbed us, they, like ourselves, were sick too. Home read the big book and twelve steps and twelve traditions alcoholics anonymous alcoholics anonymous this is the fourth edition of the big book, the basic text for alcoholics anonymous. After all this, it cant be denied that the big book paints a really definite picture of the result of holding resentments. When i am disturbed, it is because i find some person, place, thing, or situationsome fact of my life unacceptable to me, and i can find no serenity until i accept that person, place, thing, or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at.
The story of how many thousands of men and women have recovered from alcoholism generally known as the big book is a 1939 basic text, describing how to recover from alcoholism, written by the founders of alcoholics anonymous aa, bill w. The fourth edition includes twentyfour new stories that provide contemporary sharing for newcomers seeking recovery from alcoholism in a. The first edition appeared in april 1939, and in the following sixteen years, more than 300,000 copies went into circulation. Aa history what does the bigbook say about resentment. Tell him you have been worried, though perhaps needlessly. Because this book has become the basic text for our society and has helped such large numbers of alcoholic men and women to recovery, there exists a sentiment. Aug 24, 2014 on page 552 of the big book of alcoholics anonymous their basic text, there is a very helpful suggestion on how to rid yourself of resentments towards a person. Pages 563 through 568 with the publication of the big book in april, 1939, followed by jack alexanders article in the saturday evening post in march, 1941, which gave alcoholics anonymous a most enthusiastic endorsement, a. Polymer battery compartments are available for pre2009 model 512552 sights that use aacells, and model 553 two cr123a cells.
If you will ask in prayer for everything you want for yourself to be given to them, you. It set in motion trains of circumstances which brought us misfortune that we felt. We find out things about ourselves that we have been inclined to beat ourselves up about. A vision for you, big book page 164 our book is meant to be suggestive only. So, to all the present and past members of this group goes thanks for their interest and participation. Do it every day for two weeks, and you will find you have come to mean it and to want it for them, and you will realize that where you used to feel bitterness and resentment and hatred, you now feel compassionate understanding and love. The whytehouse is, i hope, a way to find that special phrase or saying etc. Learning the process of overcoming resentment literally saves the lives of people who are afflicted with the disease of alcoholism. These are aspects of the alcoholics life and personality that are usually in effect before the alcoholic comes into aa and will continue unless the alcoholic actively works the steps each day. This aa group encourages dialogue about the 12 step program of action from the big book. If you think he will be shy of a spiritual remedy, ask him to look at the chapter on. It is my hope that you will find this site useful to you and our friends of bill w.
More than 300,000 copies of the first edition are now in circulation. When i am disturbed, it is because i find some person, place, thing or situation some fact of my life unacceptable to me, and i can find no serenity until i accept that person, place, thing, or situation as being. Oct 1, 2016 on page 552 of the big book of alcoholics anonymous their basic text, there is a very helpful suggestion on how to rid yourself of resentments. Page 67 of the book, alcoholics anonymous, states, resentment is the number one offender. When i am disturbed, it is because i find some person, place, thing or situation some fact of my life unacceptable to me, and i can find no serenity until i accept that person, place, thing, or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment. Page 552 after all this, it cant be denied that the big book paints a really definite picture of the result of holding resentments. Alcoholics anonymous also known as the big book in recovery circles sets forth cornerstone concepts of recovery from alcoholism and tells the stories of men and women who have overcome the disease. Aa morning meditation big book pages 86,87 and 88 explained. Is it possible that the more we have them, the more we are moving toward our next drink, since we have used alcohol before to help us deal with them.
If you will ask in prayer for everything you want for yourself to. Step four prayer freedom from resentment step 4 of the 12. Its one of the 20th centurys most significant books and early copies are treasured by numerous collectors. Ask for their health, their prosperity, their happiness, and you. Sep 10, 2014 someone was having a problem with resentment in the meeting this morning in stepchat, and i told them to read this as i was told to and it helped me. When i am disturbed, it is because i find some person, place, thing, situation. This is the official website of the general service office g. Resentment in big book alcoholics anonymous, 12 steps and. His is the fourth edition of the book alcoholics anonymous.
We asked god to help us show the same tolerance, pity, and patience that we would cheerfully grant a sick friend. This desire gave birth to the primary purpose group of alcoholics anonymous of dallas, texas, in january, 1988. Page 552, 4th edition someone was having a problem with resentment in the meeting this morning in stepchat, and i told them to read this as i was told to and it helped me. Thats the way my drinking began, as a way to make the pain go away. The first three editions of the aa big book provide an indication of the changes which occurred since aa began in the late 1930s. I mentioned on my recent radio show the healing power of prayer that i would post the big books resentment prayer. Mar 26, 2012 given we know that the aa program is contained in the first 164 pages of the big book with further good information in the step essays of the 12 steps and 12 traditions book lets now follow the 2nd half of the prayer and meditation instructions found on pages 86, 87 and 88 of the book alcoholics anonymous big book page 87. A guide to collecting alcoholics anonymous big book. On page 52 of the big book you can find a list of bedevilments. On page 552 of the big book of alcoholics anonymous their basic text, there is a very helpful suggestion on how to rid yourself of resentments towards a person.
Acceptance i know some people get really tired of the big book quotes. At this early part of the 21st century, membership in aa continues to grow, and a fourth edition will undoubtedly continue that trend. This is the fourth edition of the big book, the basic text for alcoholics anonymous. You think he ought to know the subject better, as everyone should have a clear understanding of the risk he takes if he drinks. He said, in effect if you have a resentment you want to be free of, if you will pray for the person or the thing that you resent, you will be free. Mar 18, 2012 from page 417 of the big book of alcoholics anonymous and acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. The free version features the full text of the big book, prayers, personal stories, podcasts, meeting finder, and more. Sorting and rendering passages in the proprietary format of the 164 and more concordance does not in any way imply affiliation with or endorsement by either. This is the second edition of the book alcoholics anonymous, which made its first appearance in april 1939.
The big book the main 164 pages, prayers, personal stories, and more. The answers will come, if your own house is in order. Big book our big aa book 248 12 steps had a definite formula 248 he inspired god, as we understand him 249 philadelphia brand new group 249 rosa only 12 step call on woman, married her 250 san diego, ca now live in the west. The news hawk jim s, akron helped akron members write stories for 1st ed big book. My 10 favorite lines from the big book of alcoholics anonymous by kelly fitzgerald junco 072916 there is comfort in knowing you arent alone, that what youre feeling isnt unusual, and that there is a solution. There were 4 musts in the first and second editions of alcoholics anonymous. The second edition, published in 1955, reached a total of more than 1,150,500 copies. Here they are, the 82 occurrences of the word must found in alcoholics anonymous 4th edition the doctors opinion 1 page xxiii.
Fear in big book alcoholics anonymous, 12 steps and 12. Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program, usually men and women who are constitutionally incapable of being honest with themselves. When i am disturbed, it is because i find some person, place, thing or situation some fact of my life unacceptable to me, and i can find no serenity until i accept that person, place, thing, or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be. Big book acceptance was the answer linkedin slideshare. Fear in big book alcoholics anonymous, 12 steps and 12 traditions. The big books way to be rid of resentment pages 63 67. Being convinced, we were at step three, which is that we decided to turn our will and our life over to god as we. He who loses his life pages 540552 from the 2nd edition big book. What about people who proved that man could never fly. From page 417 of the big book of alcoholics anonymous and acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. We asked god to help us show them the same tolerance, pity, and patience that we would cheerfully grant a sick friend. If you will ask in prayer for everything you want for yourself to be given to them, you will be free.
Copyright alcoholics anonymous world services, inc. He said, in effect if you have a resentment you want to be free of, if you will pray for the person or the thing. We were having trouble with personal relationships. Given we know that the aa program is contained in the first 164 pages of the big book with further good information in the step essays of the 12 steps and 12 traditions book lets now follow the 2nd half of the prayer and meditation instructions found on pages 86, 87 and 88 of the book alcoholics anonymous big book page 87. According to the writer of that big book chapter, they had held a deep resentment towards someone. Indeed, the big book makes clear to the reader that its main objective is to help you find a higher power which will solve your problem. The big books way to be rid of resentment pages 63 67 instructions. How it works taken from alcoholics anonymous big book pages 6063 being convinced, we were at step three, which is that we decided to turn our will an how it works big book pgs. If you have a resentment you want to be free of, if you will pray for the person or the thing that you resent, you will be free.
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